“But who will take care of you when you’re old?” Anyone who announces their intention not to have children has inevitably been asked this question. Here is my response: **** Who will take care of me when I’m old you ask? Well, if I’m so incapacitated that I can’t do it myself then it will […]
It got me thinking and my initial reasons to never have my own children was due to the over population of the planet. At the time, I thought I would adopt. When, I went through conversion for Judaism, I felt even more pressure to adopt. Until I read a post geared towards childfree Jews saying we can contribute to the next generation by helping out others with their children.
I’m glad to live in a time where women can choose to be childfree. I have always known instinctively that this is right for an INTJ (personality type) woman like myself. My life is focused on my interests and the people I’ve chosen to care about and love. I feel young and liberated and excited about my life at 34 and very optimistic about the future.
As a women this is MY decision, I can make MY own decisions. Be respectful. I should not need to defend myself.
A 41 year-old childfree woman from Capetown, South Africa gives a peek into her life and shares some insightful thoughts about regret.
We love sharing material that our reader’s have written about their childfree life. If you have something you would like us to feature please email: email@example.com. The views expressed in our reader submissions do not necessarily reflect the views of Childfree is Not a Dirty Word. Submitted by: Shishir, India. Originally published in Shishir’s blog, […]
A childfree man from India shares how he decided not to have children before he got married.